25 Questions to Ask Before You Get Married That You’ll Wish You Asked Sooner

Deciding to get married is one of the biggest choices you’ll make in your life. Marriage is a symbol of love and a union of equal partnership. It is also an oath you take in front of your closest friends and family. That is why it’s so important to choose the right person to spend the rest of your life with. 

Before you even think about walking down the aisle, there are some vital questions you are going to want to ask your partner. Some topics like finances and family planning may seem a bit awkward to talk about but they are extremely important.

Knowing where your prospective partner stands on these subjects will help clarify expectations and help prepare you for your future together.

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We live in an era where the majority of people aren’t waiting to have sex on their wedding night. That said, discussing the number of partners your prospective spouse has had should be a normal question.

It isn’t always a good idea to bring up the past; however, it is beneficial for your health to know if your partner has ever been tested for a sexually transmitted disease.


The "D" Word


I know, talking about divorce when you are about to get married doesn’t seem appropriate. However, it’s important to see where your partner stands on the idea of forever.

It’s good to talk about how each one of you will handle things when things get difficult. Will both of you try to put everything you have into fixing the relationship or will one of you simply walk away?




Life after marriage can be extremely different than life before marriage. That’s because people and circumstances change. When it comes to traveling as a married person, ideally you would want your partner to join you.

However, there are some instances where you might be asked to travel for work … or maybe your partner isn’t as adventurous as you are in the area of traveling. If traveling is one of your top priorities, it is definitely a topic to discuss with your future spouse.


Spending Habits


Some people are great at saving money while others might be better at spending it. If you are the kind of person that finds comfort with having a little extra in the bank, then you are probably good at saving money.

Different spending habits in marriage could lead to conflict. Discuss how you will handle your finances together before you get married. This will hopefully minimize future arguments on the topic.


Health and Wellness


Before you get married, you want to make sure you and your spouse are compatible in more ways than one. If fitness is a big part of your life but not so much in your partner’s life, ask them to join when you take part in physical activities.

It is also important to discuss any diseases that run in the family. Health conditions are a serious part of life. Talking about what kind of disorders run in the family can help you be more prepared for the future.

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